"My kingdom for a concrete mixer." ~Anonymous Brookins
Yes, I know it looks like we have one here, but it was borrowed and literally threw a chipped gear at my feet after 2hrs. So for the entire foundation we had to hike down the hill to the neighbors pond (in Dec & Jan) for pails of water and then mix the mortar by hand in a wheelbarrow. And I know with this extreme level of DIY you're wondering if we formed and baked the bricks, too. No. No we did not and I did not plan for so much muddy hands-on work. (Surprise!) We did, however, fill the 7ft tall foundation with 26 dump truck loads of powdered granite. BY HAND. Also, this was not as much fun as it sounds.
Getting a loan to buy building supplies is a challenge if you're not a contractor, and even harder when you tell the loan officer — I can totally do this by watching youTube tutorials. I had only nine months to build or I would default on said loan. Since I was programming full time & the kids were in school, this meant 9 months with little sleep. Apparently I still found time to put on earrings (Every. Single. Day.) before hitting the job site. A dangly pair I made myself. Aside from fancy jewelry, the kids and I kept our spirits up by singing along to crazy music mixes Drew made for us. And we reminded each other how amazing it was going to be to live in this amazing (mostly level) house we were building with our own hands.
Every brick, nail, pipe, and piece of wood passed through our hands.
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When I had to stand in front of my English class and give a speech, I dissolved into tears. And when I built my house I designed a quiet library, not a stage. So when people started inviting me all over the country (& world) to share my story in person, it was an enormous leap.
But I'm me, so I accepted that challenge. Like so many times before, I found the very thing I was afraid of ended up being one of my biggest passions. I LOVE motivating a room full of people to look beyond all the tough stuff in the past and take an enormous leap toward their future. That means moving out of your comfort zone and taking some risks - even looking a little crazy to some people. But you know what? It's totally worth it. You'll change the way you see yourself and what you're capable of. You'll discover the power of achieving the impossible. And you'll figure out what the really important stuff of life is. My kids and I came out the other side of trauma thinking the most important thing we needed was a place to live. But you wanna know the truth? We didn't need a house as badly as we needed to build a house together.
Hundreds of people share their stories with me. And wherever they are in their journey, my question is always the same. What big thing are you going to build next?